Italian Phrase: Come va la vita? (How’s life?)

When you see someone you know, it’s only natural to ask how they are doing. One way you can do this in colloquial Italian is by asking the question Come va la vita? which literally means “How’s life?

Come va la vita?

How’s life?


hows life in italian

Come is the word for “how” in Italian, whereas va is the third-person singular of the verb andare meaning “to go“. For this reason, the literal translation of come va is actually “how it goes” or “how does it go“. You can actually use these two words on their own as an informal greeting that equates to the English “How’s it going?

Come va? – Bene, grazie.

How’s it going? – Good, thanks.


La vita simply means “the life“. Contrary to English, it is necessary to include the definite article in Italian, which in this case is the feminine singular la (the). Come va vita, without the definite article, will grind on the ears of any native Italian!

Another possible way of rewording this question is to add the indirect object pronoun ti (meaning “to you“) in front of va. Doing so makes the question a little more emphatic, as you are specifying whose life you’re asking about.

Come ti va la vita?

How’s (your) life?


Two stylish african american girls friends posed outdoor of steets city.
Come va la vita? Raccontami un po’, è da tanto che non ci vediamo. = How’s life? Fill me in, we haven’t seen each other in a long time.

If you want to inquire about a person’s life as something, be it their profession or marital status, simply add the preposition da (from/as) after vita.

Come va la vita da single?

What’s single life like? / How is life as a single person?


Another way of asking the same question is with the phrase Come ti butta? This is very informal, and often heard among young people. Butta is the second-person singular form of the verb buttare (to throw).

Ciao bello, come ti butta?

Hey mate, how’s it going?


A final way of asking how someone is doing is by replacing la vita with le cose (lit. the things). Since cose is plural, you’ll need to use the third-person plural of the verb andare, which is vanno. You can also include the preposition con (with) and ask something more specific as in the following example.

Allora Pietro, come vanno le cose con Maria?

So Pietro, how are things with Maria?


Two friends chatting and drinking wine
Come vanno le cose con il tuo lavoro? = How are things with your work?

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