Italian Word of the Day: Sgarbo (rudeness / discourtesy / slight)

The Italian word sgarbo sounds just as unpleasant as the meaning it suggests. It can be translated in many ways, including rudeness, discourtesy, impoliteness, and slight depending on the context.

/ṣgàr·bo/
italian word sgarbo

Sgarbo is a masculine noun whose plural form is sgarbi. Because it starts with the consonant cluster sg-, the definite and indefinite articles it takes are as follows:

lo sgarbo
the discourtesy

uno sgarbo
a discourtesy

gli sgarbi
the discourtesies

degli sgarbi
(some) discourtesies

Two verbs you will often see in the company of sgarbo are ricevere (to receive) and fare (to do / make).

  • ricevere uno sgarbo da qualcuno = to be treated rudely by someone, to be slighted by someone (lit. to receive a rudeness from someone)
  • fare uno sgarbo a qualcuno = to treat someone rudely, to slight someone (lit. to do a rudeness to someone)

Mi ha fatto uno sgarbo che non potrò mai perdonare.

He was so rude to me. I won’t be able to forgive him.
(lit. He did me a rudeness that I won’t be able to forgive.)


Young suspicious or irritated man pointing at counselor while talking to her during group session
Non mi fare uno dei tuoi sgarbi! = Don’t slight me!

You can also say trattare qualcuno con sgarbo (to treat someone rudely).

Somewhat rarer is the plural sgarbi which refers to multiple acts of rudeness or poor manners rather than one specific incident.

Non sopporto gli sgarbi a casa mia!

I won’t stand for rudeness in my house!


Take away the initial ‘s‘ and you get the opposite of sgarbo, the noun garbo which means, as you might have guessed, courtesy, politeness or good manners.

Then, we have the adjective / noun sgarbato (feminine: sgarbata) which defines a person who is rude and unkind.

Finally, there is the term sgarbataggine which indicates a recurrent behaviour that is rude and unpleasant.

rude and furious driver giving middle finger to car behind
Che gesto sgarbato! = What a rude gesture!

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